About Veronika

Hi, I’m Veronika, a Dating & Relationship Coach who has turned personal struggle into a passion for helping others create thriving, meaningful relationships.

My Journey from Loneliness to Connection

Twelve years ago, I was quietly falling apart.

I looked like a regular 21-year-old—studying Social Work, showing up to classes, smiling when it was expected.

But underneath that surface, I felt deeply alone … because I didn’t know how to truly connect with others.

Making friends felt impossibly hard, like there was some invisible barrier between me and the rest of the world.

At home, things weren’t any easier—the tension with my parents only deepened the loneliness I was already carrying.

To relieve the pain, I lost myself in romantic relationships—but they ended up feeling messy and painful.

Wherever I turned, I was constantly craving closeness, but never really finding it.

And I kept wondering: Is it always going to feel this hard?

I even tried therapy—but it didn’t bring the relief I was hoping for.

The experts I spoke to reassured me that nothing was “seriously wrong.”

But they missed the real reason I felt so miserable …

I didn’t know how to have healthy relationships.

And that lack of connection made me feel so emotionally out of control that my whole life was one long, painful ache I couldn’t escape.

The Turning Point: Relationship Skills Are Learnable

But here's what changed everything for me:

I realized that healthy relationships aren’t a matter of luck or magic.
They’re a skill. A learnable, buildable, human skill.

Just like learning to ride a bike or speak a new language—anyone can learn how to connect with others in a deep, nourishing, secure way.

Even if, like me, you didn’t grow up learning how.

✨ I wasn’t taught how to express needs without guilt.
✨ Or how to hold boundaries with love.
✨ Or how to be vulnerable and safe at the same time.

I had to learn all of it the hard way—through trial, error, breakdowns and breakthroughs …

It wasn’t easy. There were many bumps along the way (you can read about many of them on my blog!). But the transformation has been life-changing.

“I feel in control of my life again!“

Working with Veronika was life changing. I struggled for so long with setting boundaries, feeling overwhelmed by my husband’s strong personality and the demands of my family. With her support, I learned to be more assertive and communicate my thoughts clearly. Now, I feel empowered and confident in my relationships. I’ve finally found a balance that allows me to honor myself while still being there for others. It’s such a relief to feel in control of my life again!

Sophie | UK | Nov 2022

Where I Am Now: Thriving in Relationships

Today, I’m 34 and happily married to my partner Matt, with whom I’ve built a loving, conscious relationship over the past eight years. The connection with my family is better than ever, and I’ve developed a trusted and fun circle of friends.

And most importantly, I feel calm in myself. I trust myself. I know how to create and sustain real, fulfilling relationships—with friends, family, colleagues, and my community.

✨ I’m not drowning in confusion and unmet needs anymore.
✨ I know how to ask for what I want. I know how to hold space for others.
✨ And I know how to love, without losing myself.

If you’re longing for relationships that feel like home—ones where you feel seen, safe, and truly understood—then I’d love to walk this path with you.

Because it’s absolutely possible for you, too.

I Can Help You Create Relationships That Feel Like Home

If you're feeling lonely, disconnected, or frustrated in your relationships, I’ve been there. I understand the pain of longing for deep connection but not knowing how to create it. I’ve felt that confusion, that heartbreak, and that exhaustion.

But I also know it doesn’t have to be this way. Relationships are a skill—and like any skill, they can be learned. Whether it’s finding and building a stronger partnership, healing family dynamics, or healing from a painful breakup, I can guide you to the skills that will transform your relationships.

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“Veronika, you have held me in my deepest pain”

Veronika is a deeply compassionate soul. There is a softness and a clarity to her energy - a kind of purity that brings safety. Safety to unwind. Safety to feel. Safety to be. Veronika, you have held me in my deepest pain. You witnessed my shedding, releasing and moving through it into a new way of being. From the depth of my soul, I thank you so.

Fflur | Wales | Feb 2021

My Professional Background

I believe that in any area of life, experience matters just as much as formal training. Here’s a snapshot of both:

Education & Certifications:

  • 2019: Life Coaching Certification

  • 2019: Completion Process Certification (Inner Child Work)

  • 2016: Bachelor of Arts in Social Work

Practical Experience & Achievements:

  • 1200+ Coaching Hours

  • 400+ Teaching Hours

  • 4500+ Seminar Participants

  • 180,000+ Views on YouTube

Family Coaching:

  • I’m also working full time as a family coach in my local area (founded by the German government), helping struggling families to reconnect, create a peaceful home environment & strengthen the bond between parents and children.

With a solid foundation of professional training and real-world experience, I’m equipped to guide you in building healthy, loving relationships. But more than that, my personal journey through loneliness and disconnection has shaped the empathy and insights I bring to my coaching.

A Little About Me: Beyond Relationships

When I’m not helping others create fulfilling relationships, you’ll find me:

  • Travelling: I’ve been to 44 countries, with countless more on my list.

  • Exploring the ocean: I’m an avid freediver (I can go 25m deep on a single breath!).

  • DJing: I perform under the name Sillah, mixing Drum and Bass music.

Oh, and fun fact—I met my husband Matt during a backpacking trip in Mumbai, India, in 2017. Now that’s a story for another time!

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“I feel like a completely new man”

I can't thank you enough for the incredible support and guidance I received. When I first reached out, my marriage felt like it was hanging by a thread. My wife and I hadn't been intimate in months, and our conversations had dwindled to nothing but polite exchanges. I was lost and unsure how to turn things around. Through Veronika’s compassionate coaching, I began to understand the negative patterns that had developed in our relationship. It was eye-opening to see how my own actions were contributing to our struggles. With the tools and insights I gained, I learned how to communicate better and reconnect with my wife on a deeper level. Now, I feel like a completely new man. While there are still challenges, our relationship has improved dramatically. We talk more openly and find joy in the little moments together again. I’m truly grateful for the transformation we’ve both experienced, and I can’t recommend you enough to anyone who feels stuck in their relationship!

Sven | Sweden | April 2024

Let’s Create the Connections You Deserve

I’ve discovered the keys to a fulfilling, connected life—and now I’m here to share them with you.

If you're ready to break free from loneliness and start building the deep, meaningful relationships you’ve always wanted, let’s work together.

I see your potential. Let’s unlock it.

“Honestly the best money I’ve ever spent“

My partner Jess is the most important person in my life. When we had issues last year I felt devastated. I reached out to Veronika and she gave me a student discount to work with her for 5 sessions - honestly the best money I’ve ever spent! She taught me how to understand Jess better and what women need to feel seen and heard. I was able to repair our connection and it felt again like when we first got together. She’s my soulmate and now I know what to do to keep our relationship going strong and how to repair it when we face challenges. I can’t thank you enough!

Liam | US | July 2022