About Me

I help conscious singles find love that feels like home.

From Chaos to Connection

Before I found my husband, my love life felt like a storm I couldn’t escape. I moved from one disconnected, unhealthy relationship to the next, lost in anxiety, emotional rollercoasters, and bouts of depression. My nervous system was completely dysregulated because I never had a secure connection.

When I found him, it felt like I was finally home. Although the early stages of our relationship were sometimes rocky — we had no idea how to communicate in a healthy way — it was the first time I ever felt truly emotionally secure. I know now that was because we were truly compatible. From that moment on, everything started changing: the anxiety began to fade, I was able to create healthier, mutual relationships with my family and friends, and I found fulfilment in my career and purpose in life. Honestly, if I hadn’t found a connected, safe relationship (by chance!), I believe I could have gone down a very dark path. Finding my husband truly saved my life!

Your Primary Relationship is too Important to Rely on Luck

Meeting him wasn’t the result of strategy or skill — it was pure luck. And I got lucky a second time when we managed not to let our triggers and unhealthy patterns break us apart, instead working together to resolve them. But again, it was pure luck that we found the right information at the right time. And here’s the thing — your primary relationship is too important for your life and mental health to rely on luck.

That’s why, over the years, I’ve analysed my own relationship as well as hundreds of couples to understand why some couples work so well together and others get lost in unhealthy, destructive patterns that ultimately break them apart. Through this I realised there’s a clear, repeatable formula that explains why some relationships thrive and others fall apart. From this, I created my Signature Conscious Dating Formula, which is the foundation of my Ready for Love program.

“Working with Veronika has been truly life-changing. From the very beginning, it all felt like a dream — and now, I’m engaged to be married to my Matt, whom I met in the second month of the program.”

Tal, Lawyer, US

Why I Do This Work

I see so many people struggling in their love lives, not because they’re “broken,” but because they don’t yet understand the patterns that keep them stuck. The heartbreak, confusion, and repeated mistakes aren’t random — they’re predictable, and they can be changed.

That's why in 2019 I began supporting people in finding healthy, lasting love. In the early years, my focus was more general relationship guidance, but over time I moved into the realm of conscious dating, because I realised that making conscious choices in who we commit to is the single most powerful step toward building a lasting, joyful partnership.

Why You Can Trust my Guidance on your Journey

I also hold a Bachelor’s degree in Social Work and work full-time as a social worker in my local area here in Germany. There I help families reconnect, build healthy communication, and raise children in emotionally safe and conscious environments. My day job and my online coaching work complement each other seamlessly — whether I’m supporting singles seeking love or families navigating relational challenges, I see the same patterns emerge over and over. It’s deeply rewarding to apply insights from one area to the other, and it makes me a more grounded, practical coach for my clients.

    • Educational Background & Certifications: BA in Social Work (University Coburg, 2016), Certified Life Coach (Pure Coaching Academy, 2019), Certified Inner Child Work Practitioner (Teal Swan, 2019)

    • Coaching Experience: 1,500+ hours of private coaching with singles and families

    • Community & Reach: Founder of Conscious Relationship School ( 9,500+ members), hosting monthly webinars since 2020

    • Free Guidance & Resources: Helping thousands of people through my YouTube channel, blogs (2,000+ monthly readers), and free webinars

    • Approach: Trauma-informed, logical, and practical — making dating understandable and actionable while guiding clients toward secure, fulfilling relationships

My Signature Dating Formula

Through years of guiding clients — and reflecting on my own journey — I developed my Signature Conscious Dating Formula. It’s a logical, step-by-step approach that makes the often confusing world of dating understandable and manageable, even for men who value logic over fluffy advice.

The formula focuses on three key factors that determine whether a relationship will thrive:

  1. Compatibility – Understanding whether you and your partner truly fit in values, lifestyle, and emotional needs

  1. Relationship Skills – Building the communication, boundaries, and emotional safety needed to connect deeply.

  2. Unresolved Triggers – Recognizing past wounds or protective patterns that can unconsciously sabotage love.

Through this formula, we can learn to select a partner who we have a real chance at lasting connection with — not based on luck or fleeting feelings, but on clarity, alignment, and conscious awareness.

“Your guidance completely transformed my love life. I’m now with Alinda, a supportive, joyful, and committed woman, and I want to thank you for making such a positive difference for me.”

Jörgen, Project Manager, NL

How I Can Support You

I help conscious singles stop repeating unhealthy patterns and start attracting love that feels like home. If you’re ready to:

  • Heal the wounds holding you back

  • Understand your relationship patterns

  • Attract a partner who truly matches you

… then my Ready for Love program is designed for you!

For those who are already in a new relationship and want guidance during the early stages, I also offer The Conscious Love Journey, a continuation program to build a secure, thriving partnership from the very beginning.

“Working with Veronika helped me overcome my fear of intimacy, build deep sisterhood, and open my heart to a truly loving relationship with a man.”

Sharli, Dance teacher, US

✨ Start With a Breakthrough Session

60 minutes. Deep insights. Immediate clarity.

In this personalised session, we’ll dive into your unique dating patterns, uncover hidden blocks, and give you actionable steps you can start using right away.

  • Investment: $130 USD

  • Bonus: If you join my program Ready for Love within 7 days, your $130 is credited toward your program.